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10 Free and Lovely Prayers for My Teenage Daughter

On March 9, my sweet little baby girl turned 13. 

13! How did that happen? 

I promise it seems like I gave birth to her yesterday. 

Where have the years gone? They’ve just flittered away moment by moment until all of sudden…teenager! 

I’ve always prayed in the name of Jesus for my children. I want them to have the right friends and to know the best way to live their lives…in Christ. My prayers have changed as they’ve grown through different stages of their lives and as my spiritual life has grown. 

My prayers for my teenage daughter bring me closer to God and through Him, closer to her. As a child of God, I want the very same for my daughter, and so I pray I have the right words to help my beautiful daughter know she is one of God’s people, too.

In the post 5 Favorite Verses to Teacher Your Preteen Daughter, I wrote about some of the fears I’ve faced as I strive to raise a confident, God-loving, compassionate, productive daughter and how I’ve learned to turn to scripture when I don’t know the answers (frequently!).

Now that she’s a teenager, I think about her even more – of the pressures she’ll have to face, the challenges she’ll overcome, the disappointment she’ll sometimes have to deal with. 

I’ve begun choosing one prayer for her that I pray all day long, every time I have a free brain moment.

Each day, I write down my prayer. Over time, I’ve come up with quite a collection, and I’d like to share with you my 10 favorites for her teen years. 

These I feel I can re-pray and they’ll always be relevant. See what you think, and then let me know in the comments below.

​10 Prayers to Pray Every Day

Dear Lord,

1. Give my daughter the confidence that comes from knowing who she is in Christ Jesus.

2. Let her always understand and feel how much she is loved.

3. Give her strength to say no when needed.

4. Keep her safe from physical harm, emotional distress, and spiritual uncertainties.

5. Help her to extend grace to herself and to others as You extend grace to her.

6. Comfort her in times of need even if she forgets to ask.

7. Give her courage in difficult times when she’s feeling unsure, insecure, or scared.

8. Keep her in good health and feeling well.

9. Let her find her worth in You and not in others.

10. Fill her with the desire to have a pure heart and to always seek You.

In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Sample Prayers for You to Pray

Worrying about our teenage girls and the hard times they can go through is scary! We want to be a positive influence, for them to develop healthy relationships, good friends, a strong work ethic, and to follow the right path. Daily prayers to our Father God can help when your little girl is not so little anymore. 

Morning Prayer for Strength and Focus

Dear God, As the sun rises and a new day begins, I pray for my daughter. Grant her the strength to face the challenges of the day and the focus to achieve her goals. May she find joy in small moments and be surrounded by positive influences. Guide her steps and decisions, and let your love and wisdom shine through her. Amen.

Evening Prayer for Reflection and Gratitude

Almighty God, As we wind down and reflect on the day, I thank you for the blessings and lessons bestowed upon my daughter. Help her to recognize the good in every situation and cultivate a heart of gratitude for the rest of her life. As she rests tonight, may she find peace, rejuvenation, and clarity for the day ahead. In your name, we pray. Amen.

Prayer for Challenging Times

Lord Jesus Christ, In moments of doubt and challenge, I lift my daughter up to you. Grant her the resilience to persevere, the wisdom to see your plan, and the faith to trust in your purpose. Surround her with love, support, and understanding, reminding her that she is never alone in her journey. Amen.

Prayer for Milestones and Achievements

Heavenly Father, Today, as we celebrate my daughter’s life, achievements, and milestones, I am filled with gratitude and pride. Thank you for guiding her, for the talents you’ve given her, and for the opportunities that have come her way. May she continue to grow, be a woman of joy, and serve as a testament to your endless love and grace. Amen.

Why Prayer Matters for Your Teenage Daughter

The teenage years are a time of immense growth, exploration, and change. As parents, we often find ourselves at a crossroads, watching our daughters take on new challenges, form new relationships, and develop their identities. It’s a period filled with both excitement and anxiety. But through it all, one constant remains: the power of prayer.

  1. Foundation of Strength: In a world filled with uncertainties, prayer offers a foundation of strength and assurance. It provides our daughters with the understanding that they are not alone, and there’s a higher power guiding and watching over them.
  2. Building Resilience: The challenges of adolescence can sometimes be overwhelming. Prayer equips our daughters with resilience, teaching them to find hope in tough times and to celebrate joys, big or small.
  3. Strengthening Bonds: Shared moments of prayer between parent and child can significantly enhance the bond of trust and understanding. It offers a safe space for open conversations, reflections, and shared hopes.
  4. Guidance and Wisdom: As our daughters grapple with crucial decisions about friendships, academics, and their future, prayer can be a compass, guiding them towards wise choices aligned with their faith and values.

Components of a Meaningful Prayer for Your Teenage Daughter

Crafting a heartfelt prayer for your teenage daughter goes beyond just words. It’s an expression of your deepest wishes, hopes, and concerns for her. Here’s what you can include to make it resonate:

  1. Physical and Emotional Well-being: Begin by praying for her health, strength, and vitality. Ask for emotional balance, resilience, and the ability to manage stress and anxiety.
  2. Guidance in Decisions: Seek divine wisdom for her, especially when faced with challenging choices. Pray that she remains true to her values and convictions.
  3. Positive Friendships: Pray for her to be surrounded by supportive, kind, and positive friends who uplift her and share common values.
  4. Protection from Harm: Ask for a shield against negative influences, be it in the form of peer pressure, harmful digital content, or any form of danger.
  5. Academic and Extracurricular Success: Seek blessings for her endeavors at school and outside, ensuring she finds passion and purpose in her pursuits.
  6. Strengthened Faith: Pray for her faith to grow stronger with each passing day, guiding her actions and decisions.
  7. Gratitude: Encourage a spirit of gratitude, ensuring she recognizes and appreciates the blessings in her life, big or small.

By integrating these components, your prayer will not only offer support and blessings for your daughter but also serve as a guiding light in her journey through the teenage years.

Ways to Encourage Your Teenage Daughter to Pray

  1. Personal Testimonies: Sharing your personal experiences with prayer can inspire your daughter. Let her know of times when prayer brought you comfort, guidance, or unexpected blessings.
  2. Dedicated Time: Set aside a regular time for shared prayers. This could be during a nightly routine, before meals, or during weekend reflections. Study the Word of God as well. Consistency can help cultivate the habit of prayer.
  3. Relevant Bible Verses: Introduce her to scriptures that emphasize the importance of prayer. Passages that resonate with teenage experiences can be particularly impactful.
  4. Journaling: Encourage her to maintain a prayer journal. Writing down good things or bad, thoughts, concerns, and moments of gratitude can make the act of praying more tangible and reflective.
  5. Joining Youth Groups: Being a part of church youth groups or Christian communities can offer her a supportive environment where she can learn about the love of God and grow in her prayer life with peers.
  6. Leading by Example: Your own commitment to prayer can be the most powerful encouragement. When she sees you turning to prayer in various situations, it reinforces its significance.
  7. Open Conversations: Be open to discussing her doubts, questions, or thoughts on prayer. This creates a safe space where she can explore and deepen her relationship with God.

Final Thoughts

The teenage years are a transformative period, filled with highs and lows, discoveries and challenges. As parents, our heart’s desire is to see our precious daughters navigate these years with grace, resilience, and wisdom. We want them to know God’s perfect love and the unique gifts He has given.

Prayer, a powerful tool bestowed upon us, serves as a beacon of light in this journey. By consistently lifting our daughters up in prayer, we not only seek divine intervention in their lives but also fortify our bond with them. 

It’s a gentle reminder of the unwavering love and guidance that God provides. As you continue to pray for your teenage daughter, embrace the moments of connection, reflection, and gratitude, trusting that each prayer plants a seed of faith, hope, and love in her heart. 

Here’s to the beautiful journey ahead, guided by prayer and enveloped in God’s eternal love.

Related Posts:

5 Favorite Verses to Teach Your Preteen Daughter – empowering my daughter with scripture and using my relationship with Christ to be a better parent.

Granting God’s Grace in Difficult Situations – how I handled it when my teenage son and his girlfriend got pregnant.

From Sweet Baby Boy to Kind Young Man (and the Tough Teen Years in Between) – looking back with perspective over raising my son (the one who had my granddaughter when he was 19) and appreciating the man he’s becoming.

What prayers do you pray for your daughter(s)?

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22 Comments

  1. This is something I needed to see today! Thank you God for spiritual guidance just when we need it!

    1. This makes me so happy to hear! So thankful for a God who hears our prayers. Thank you for taking the time to comment! ~Julie

  2. I absolutely love how this prayer touches on so many aspects of a teenagers life. My daughter turned 13 today; I’ll definitely be praying this over her. Thank you so much for sharing! Would it be ok if I reposted this prayer?

    1. Hi Dawn, Yes…it is okay to repost the prayer. Please direct credit back to Loving Christ Ministries and the website. Thank you! ~Julie

  3. This is a great post. Nothing can equal the power of prayers. Praying from the bottom of our heart, for our loved ones, is the best gift we can give them any day 🙂

  4. I love this! As a mom of a 16 year old girl and a 13 year old boy, I know what you mean about the time flying by! Thanks for sharing this!

  5. This is beautiful 🙂 I too have teens in the house, and my prayers have also changed. It’s been a bumpy road at time with the older ones as they learn to find their way, but so thankful for a Heavenly Father who cares for us!

    1. How exciting she’s a newlywed! I have two boys and a girl. Girls are definitely different to raise – not better or worse – just different! They’re all so much fun!

    1. It’s so scary to think of what they go through these days. I’m so nervous for my daughter, but right now she has a great group of friends. I know all the parents (most work in the school system where I teach), and that helps. I plan to keep praying!!

  6. I love this post! Great prayer ideas. I really think that we dont utilize the power of prayer enough in our lives.

    1. I agree! I have to make consistent, intentional effort to pray for current, specific concerns. I keep a journal which helps.

    1. Thanks. I’m always looking for more so if you have ideas, I’d love to hear them. Many days I wing it! Ha. I think that’s necessary, though, as we never know what a day might bring.

  7. I thank you so much for these prayers. They are very helpful.

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