10 Simple Tips for Making a Women’s Retreat Better

Planning a women’s retreat can be an exciting opportunity to create a space and time where women can connect, relax, and grow together.

As the retreat organizer, you’ll want to make sure the all attendees have a memorable experience. You want them to feel loved, empowered, and ready to move forward in their faith.

I started planning retreats 10 years ago. Through trial and error, my co-planner and I learned some simple tips for making our women’s retreats better. I think these tips will help you, too.

Determining the Purpose and Theme

Define the Retreat’s Goals

In the beginning, make sure to take the time to define your retreat’s goals. What do you want the participants to gain from the experience?

Write down your goals so they guide your planning and decision making while planning.

Here are a few goal ideas for you to start with:

  • Spiritual growth: Strengthen participants’ connection with God.
  • Personal growth: Enrich women’s lives and improve their well-being.
  • Sisterhood: Foster community and deepen relationships among the participants.
  • Empowerment: Cultivate a space for women to feel empowered in their womanhood.
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Choosing a Relevant Theme

After writing down your retreat’s goals, you can begin choosing a relevant theme. We have lots of themes to consider here on the website. You’re bound to find something that resonates.

When selecting a theme, consider the following:

  1. Culture and context: Reflect on the needs and interests of your target community. Is there something happening within the community that the retreat could address or support? Are there any cultural themes or symbols that would be meaningful to the participants?
  2. Scripture and spirituality: If your retreat has a spiritual focus, look for a biblical theme or verse that supports your goals. Let God’s Word inspire the direction of your retreat.
  3. Different aspects of womanhood: Think about the diverse facets of being a woman – motherhood, sisterhood, career, self-confidence, or self-care, among others. Can any of these aspects support your retreat’s goals?
  4. Creative elements: Don’t be afraid to think outside the box when choosing a theme. Using unique and creative themes can make your retreat memorable and engaging. Consider using visual elements, decorations, and activities that connect to your theme.

Once you’ve chosen your theme, be sure to weave it throughout all aspects of your retreat. From the activities and workshops to the decorations and music, having a cohesive theme will make your women’s retreat a more immersive and meaningful experience for all involved.

Planning and Organization

Venue Selection

When selecting the perfect venue for your women’s retreat, consider the following factors:

  • Location: Choose a location that is easy to access and provides a calm environment for relaxation and reflection. If your retreat is for your local church only, having the retreat in your church would work perfectly. If women from multiple churches will be gathering, you might consider finding a meeting hall or a local campground with facilities.
  • Accommodations: Make sure the venue you choose offers comfortable accommodations. If the venue doesn’t offer lodging for your overnight retreat, make sure suitable hotels are close by.
  • Capacity: Be sure the venue can accommodate the expected number of attendees. It’s no fun to feel crowded.

Budget Considerations

If you’re like I was, you may not have a very large budget. It’s still possible to provide a retreat with everything your participants need to grow in Christ.

To manage your budget effectively, consider the following:

  • Compare the costs of various venues and accommodations.
  • Prioritize expenses: identify essential items and those that can be trimmed.
  • Account for unexpected expenses by setting aside a contingency fund.

Retreat Agenda and Administration

When organizing the retreat agenda, keep these points in mind:

  • Balance structured activities with plenty of downtime for relaxation.
  • Create opportunities for personal reflection and group bonding.
  • Clearly communicate the agenda to attendees in advance.

To streamline administration tasks, consider using forms and online tools for registrations, payments, and communication.

Collaborating with Others

Have a retreat planning team so responsibilities can be shared. Having a team helps with:

  • Generating ideas and planning activities.
  • Attracting a larger group of attendees.
  • Sharing expenses and reducing overall costs.

Activities and Workshops

Spiritual Enrichment Activities

To nourish your soul, consider incorporating meditation and prayer into your women’s retreat. These activities can help participants connect with themselves and their spirituality.

You might want to set aside dedicated quiet time for reflection or involve mindfulness practices throughout the retreat.

Creative and Fun Activities

A well-rounded women’s retreat should offer a balance between serious and relaxing activities. Encourage creativity by incorporating crafts or artistic workshops. These can provide a relaxing outlet for self-expression and a sense of accomplishment.

Don’t forget about fun activities and games! These can help break the ice and allow participants to bond over shared experiences.

Guest Speakers and Topics

Choosing the Right Speaker

When planning a women’s retreat, consider your retreat’s theme and purpose and find a guest speaker who fits. Your speaker doesn’t have to be a professional, but she should be confident in sharing her faith and how your theme and purpose have affected her life.

You’ll always want to make sure your speaker is relatable so that participants take away a feeling of purpose.

To choose the right speaker:

  • Evaluate their expertise in relation to your retreat’s theme
  • Check for references or reviews from previous speaking engagements (if available)
  • Chat with them to ensure their message aligns with your retreat’s goals

Creating a Nurturing and Supportive Environment

Emphasizing Sisterhood and Connection

Retreats are an excellent opportunity to strengthen sisterhood and connections among participants.

Foster a sense of community by organizing group activities like icebreakers, sharing circles, and team-building exercises. Encourage open communication and active listening to help build trust among attendees.

Encouraging Vulnerability and Emotional Healing

After meaningful time together, powerful keynotes, and self-reflection, many women feel a deep transformation.

They can feel vulnerable as they deal with deep feelings. Emotional healing is essential for a transformative retreat experience.

Be sure the retreat is a safe space for the women to feel and, if desired, share what they’re going through with one another.


I hope you keep all of these tips in mind as you plan your next retreat. Your event can be life-changing for others.

Whatever else you do, always remember that your big goal is to help each person live a life closer to Christ.

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